Bespoke funeral tributes: personalised sympathy flowers by Fleur by DK

Funerals are a time to honour life, share memories, and offer comfort to those grieving. They bring family and friends together to reflect on a loved one’s journey, creating moments of connection through words, music, and rituals. Among these rituals, flowers hold a particularly meaningful place. They provide not just beauty, but also a silent language of love, remembrance, and respect.

At Fleur by DK in Merivale, Christchurch, we believe flowers are more than decoration — they are symbols of compassion and memory at life’s most tender moments. Led by award-winning florist Debra Kinnaird, our experienced team listens carefully to each family, creating arrangements that capture the personality and spirit of the one being remembered. Whether it’s through a bespoke tribute, a simple spray, or a carefully chosen bouquet, our goal is to provide solace and celebrate individuality through the beauty of flowers.



The meaning behind traditional funeral flowers

Certain blooms have become deeply associated with remembrance and sympathy, each carrying symbolism that can help express feelings words sometimes cannot. At Fleur by DK, we honour these traditions while tailoring every design to your wishes.

• Lilies – Perhaps the most traditional funeral flower, white lilies symbolise purity of the soul and renewal after death.

• Roses – White roses express reverence and innocence, red roses convey love and respect, while yellow roses represent friendship.

• Carnations – A classic choice for sprays and wreaths. White carnations symbolise pure love, while pink carnations are often chosen as a sign of remembrance.

• Chrysanthemums – In New Zealand and other Western cultures, they represent sympathy and honour. In Europe and Asia, they are closely tied to death and grief.

• Orchids – White or pink orchids symbolise eternal love and delicate sympathy.

• Gladioli – Tall and elegant, they represent strength of character and moral integrity.

We offer a wide range of arrangements — from wreaths of eternal life to casket sprays and sympathy bouquets — all customisable in colour and style to reflect your personal sentiments.

Custom funeral flowers in Christchurch

While many families find comfort in traditional designs, sometimes grief calls for something uniquely personal. At Fleur by DK, we specialise in bespoke funeral tributes that reflect the true essence of your loved one.

We take the time to understand their story — perhaps a favourite flower, a colour they always wore, or a style that reflects their personality. These details can be incorporated into your arrangement, ensuring it not only pays tribute but also feels deeply meaningful to family and friends.

For example, a gardener may be honoured with rustic, nature-inspired florals. Someone who loved bold colours may be remembered with vibrant roses and orchids. A soft, pastel palette might be chosen to symbolise peace and serenity. Our team will work with you to create an arrangement that feels right, personal, and heartfelt.

Compassionate service when it matters most

We understand that organising funeral flowers can feel overwhelming during a time of loss. That’s why our team provides gentle guidance and support, helping you choose arrangements that feel appropriate while handling every detail with care.

As one of Christchurch’s most trusted florists, we are proud to offer:

• Over 40 years of floral expertise from award-winning florist Debra Kinnaird.

• Personal consultations to help design tributes that reflect your wishes.

• Same-day delivery across Christchurch and Canterbury, ensuring flowers arrive fresh and beautifully presented.

• A reputation built on artistry, compassion, and trust — qualities that families value most during such difficult times.